YMonday, November 15, 2004
sia la.. waste one day reading a book on puasa. its cork la, but its a book bout building relationships
my chat with a fren has brought me to remember a few chapters of the book. She initiated a breakup, claiming that the guy is too possesive..and that she cannot breath, everything she does is for him, for him for him.. even going with her own frens, she has to thk of his reaction and cared for his feelings before deciding to go onot. Well.. thru the theory of the book i read, its very normal for her to thk this way, that is, she has been contributing her share of love in the relationship..and of cos, she is not some love machine or wadever, thus she can't emit love forever. THEN, she needs a break.. a break to gather back the little little pink and red hearts, love. she is right now, going through the downside of a relationship (i dun mean dark or the negative side), its like a sine wave lidat, got up and down. how high u reached will determine how low u will hit. and after hitting bottom, she will most prob spring back up. Well, at least from her point of the testimony, its like this. this theory is also applies to males, just that it happens more frequently.. man alternates between autonomy and intimacy more than woman. so dano, i shall continue this theory on the male side of the story on the next blog..stay tuned folks!
Correct as at 20261104.
(subjected to changes if defiant changes testimony!)
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